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Can we stop fueling narcissists?

Hurt people hurt people


By hurting narcissist one is hurting other innocent people indirectly (and most of the hurt the narcissist did is already boosted from other people taking revenge on them). Narcissists are the kind of people that turn hurt into hurting others and it doesn't have to be the people who hurt them, anybody around is good enough.

Doesn't mean one's hurt from them is worth nothing and it doesn't mean we have to let them do it. What it means, is that it is fucking hard to resolve this problem, even going in the right direction is full of kindle and oil.

Narcissists are one of the most difficult people to heal or to let them heal themselves... It's ironic really, most sociopaths KNOW they are hurting people but they don't care, while most narcissists don't realize it and they would care if they knew but they think they are perfect -in their protective superficial mind, or at least better than other people- and never hurt people or they think it is "needed" 

But today the behavior of a lot of people around me, especially in social media, is pushing each other into creating more and more narcissists or worsening the behavior of the existing ones more and more... Fueling the hate.  Even triggering narcissism where none was before.  Soon we will all burn if we are not careful. 

In NO way are victims to be blamed or in any way to be disrespected, BUT.. If you think about this honestly, narcissists don't hurt consciously, but anybody wanting to hurt narcissists are not only throwing oil on the fire but are basically doing a more evil thing than narcissists themselves because they do it consciously. Sorry, hard pill to swallow, but a moral truth. OK, maybe .."human condition" and not that evil? But if we say human condition, what do you think narcissism is?

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