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Porn addiction.

Poem from a woman to a porn-addicted man.

After reading it, I wondered: What is porn-addiction? What is sex-addiction, in any form? Maybe I have that too?  Maybe porn itself ( at least in its current form ) is an addiction in se! It's so widespread and sex is used everywhere today. Mostly for selfish purposes. I resent it, but it's everywhere! I' don't think I'm influenced (much) by commercials -I even start to hate certain labels and companies because of the commercial- but I am influenced by sexy pictures and women! I don't want it (though something in me wants it obviously).
At the same time it clashes with that theory, I believe(d) in, namely that (some kind of) porn makes some part of the unlucky male population less agressive and less otherwise unhappy.  I always believed that, and still do..kind of (Cfr. Japan) But even then, isn't it going too far?

Anyone knows the movement "'fight the new drug'" ? I didn't, until now. I knew of women-friendly porn and less "pure porn", but not this. Apparently, it's even completely reversing that theory above! (Or at least again in its current form, but it will probably always end up in that form, won't it?)



O, I forgot, I wish there were more women like that.  Disapproving with understanding & love!

Tell me what you think, peeps!


Get out of the insidious swamp
You allowed to fester in your spirit
All divine long left behind
Perversions clouding your vision
Leaving you bereft of connection and feeling

Get back your innocent gaze
Leave behind the insidious lust-filled craze
Remove its claws from your soul
Step back and take no more
All it wants is a gaping hole in your being

Everyone is being abused
There is no pleasure, there is no use
Your mind is being twisted round the bend
You’re so young still, you have much precious time to spend
Spit in the face of this depraved phenomenon

This is not who you are
This is not what you long for
This is not what you’re designed for

Reclaim yourself
And who you truly are
You can discover real intimacy
Nothing tarnished by acquired fetishes
Just true pleasure from real bond-fueled touch

Divine sexuality is the true nature of your being
And your birthright
You let it get snatched away
Don’t get back in its clutches
It won’t give you anything
But it will drain you of all life energy and potential

Be excited to drop the shackles
To rediscover life’s true pleasures
And what really excites you

Get the hijackers out of your brain
Undo the mess they’ve caused
With due patience all can be restored
You’re worth so much more
- Natasha Katanay

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